The Power of Kind Words
estimated 2-4 minute read time
Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) - "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
In the our daily interactions, the words we speak have a significant ripples or reprecussions. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us of the profound impact of our speech — a gentle answer has the power to diffuse tension, while a harsh word can kindle anger. As followers of Christ, our words carry the potential to reflect His love and grace.
In a world where words can be wielded like weapons, the call to speak kindly stands out as a beacon of Christ's teachings. Jesus himself, in His earthly ministry, was characterized by words that healed, encouraged, and uplifted. Our speech is an extension of our faith, an opportunity to sow seeds of kindness that can bear fruit in the lives of others.
Kind words go beyond mere politeness; they convey a genuine concern for the well-being of those around us. Dale Carnegie emphasizes this good habit in his text, "How to win friends and influence people." Ephesians 4:29 instructs, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Our words should be purposeful, nurturing an atmosphere of encouragement and understanding.
As we navigate the challenges of our relationships and interactions, let us be intentional about the words we choose. Let kindness be the melody that accompanies our conversations. May our speech be seasoned with grace, reflecting the love of Christ in every syllable. In the tapestry of life, may our words be a vibrant thread, weaving a narrative of compassion, understanding, and the transformative power of Christ's love.
Message Notes
Four Steps to Speaking with Purpose and Influence: Or, Four Steps of Using Wisdom in Your Speech, by Javier Odom.